Clean And Sober Not Dead Seperator

Let’s ask Bill W.

What happened to your sponsor, Ebby?

Bill’s Answer

It was Ebby who brought me the message that saved my life and uncounted thousands of others.

Because of gratitude and old friendship, my wife Lois and I invited Ebby to live at our home shortly after I sobered up. The son of a well-to-do family in Albany, he had never learned any profession so he was broke and had to begin all over. These were difficult circumstances, naturally. Ebby stayed with us something like a year and a half. Being intent on getting re-established in life, he took little interest in helping other alcoholics. Little by little, he commenced the rationalization we have seen so often. He began to say that if he had the right romance and the right job then things would be okay. At length, he fell by the wayside. He would not mind if I tell this – it is a part of his story today.

For many years, my old friend Ebby was on the wagon and off. Sometimes he could stay sober for a year or more. He tried living with Lois and me for another considerable period but apparently this was of no help. Maybe we actually hindered him. As A.A. began to grow his position became difficult. For a long time things went from bad to worse.

About six years ago the groups down in Texas decided to try their hand. Ebby was shipped non-stop to Dallas and placed in an A.A. drying out place. In these new surroundings in Texas, far from his old failures, he has made a splendid recovery. Excepting for one slip which occurred about a year after his arrival down there he has been bone dry ever since. This is one of the deepest satisfactions that has ever come to me since A.A. started and many another A.A. can say the same. (N.C.C.A. ‘Blue Book,’ Vol.12, 1960)

Let’s ask Bill some more questions.
1 – The Disease Concept
2 – Mental Obsession
3 – How Does AA Work?
4 – A Continued Existence
5 – Early AA 12th Step
6 – What Happened to Ebby?
7 – Oxford Group Info
8 – Agnostics & God
9 – Medicine, Religion & AA
10 – Origins of the Traditions
11 – Still More Traditions Info
12 – General Service Conference
13 – AA & Other Agencies
14 – The 12 Concepts
15 – Remembering Our Early Friends
16 – Are Alcoholics “Different?”
17 – Is It All Bill Wilson’s Experience?
18 – “A Rapid Growth Problem?”
19 – Bill Wilson’s Spiritual Experience
20 – Early AA		 21 – Meet AA #3
22 – More Big Book Info
23 – St. Ignatius & The Steps
24 – Father Dowling’s Influence
25 – More on the Traditions
26 – GSO Financing
27 – AA Government?
28 – Drug Addicts & AA
29 – Right of Appeal
30 – Are Alcoholics “Neurotic?”
31 – What is Alcoholism?
32 – Is AA a Religion?
33 – What Is AA’s Success Rate?
34 – Carl Jung’s Contribution
35 – Ebby’s Message to Bill
36 – Clergy & AA
37 – AA and the Community
38 – Short GSO History
39 – The Rockefeller Connection
40 – The Three Legacies
41 – Drunks in AA Meetings?
 

 



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